Lessons from a Life Well Lived
Over the weekend I was at my father’s funeral and I was reminded during this time about how temporary life on this earth can be. My family had the opportunity to share stories, laugh, cry and share words of comfort with one another. As I dwell on the brevity of life, the example James gives comes to my mind, “…What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” (James 4:14 NIV)
For those wondering or didn’t know, my dad he faced lots of health complications throughout his life (stabbed, struck by lightning, 6 heart attacks, numerous blood clots and much more) and through it all he always remained steadfast in his faith, cared for others and their needs, worked behind the scenes, spent unhurried time around people and saw eternity as his goal.
I personally am challenged by this because culture makes us feel like we should pursue something that is the opposite of this.
Culture says…
Do whatever you can to avoid struggle or pain
If you just work hard or long enough you can avoid pain.
Focus on self and not others (especially if you are facing challenges)
Do everything with efficiency and speed, so you can do the next thing.
Focus on the here and now
God’s kingdom presents quite the opposite and seems upside down to the culture around us. God says…
Struggle produces perseverance, character and hope (Romans 5)
There will be struggles in this life (John 16:33)
We should care for others and practice hospitality (Luke 10:25-37)
Be present with those around us, mourning with those that mourn and celebrating with those that have good news. (Romans 12:15)
We live this life, but eternity is our goal (2 Timothy 4:7)
Romans 12:9-13 (NIV) says this,
“Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.”
As I reflect on this and my father’s life I am challenged to run a race that has purpose, embraces the harder moments and slows down a little more to provide margin in my schedule to care for the people who enter my path. Three questions you can ask of yourself this week are…
What kingdom am I pursuing (God’s, my own or someone else’s)?
What mark will I leave on this earth?
How will I finish my race?
